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Welcome to BDSMcommunity

A hub for discussion, questions, help and conversation. Read below for this community's guidelines.

Our subreddit family



1. This is an 18+ subreddit.

  • If you are found out to be under 18 your post will be removed and you will be banned from our entire subreddit family.
  • Pictures or videos of underage people in any context are not allowed.

2. Don't spam.

  • Spam posts will be removed and regular spammers will be banned.
  • Personal blog links (Tumblr, etc.) and self promotion (Etsy shops, etc.) count as spam.

3. Personal attacks and blatant abuse will not be tolerated.

  • Name calling and personal attacks.
  • Homophobia, sexism, racism, etc.
  • Purposefully inciting arguments.
  • Threats.
  • Doxxing.

4. No starting drama.

  • Linking to posts from subreddits outside our family to complain about or brigade.
  • Any discussion or accusations of TRP or any other "pill" rhetoric or philosophies.
  • Purposely inflammatory posts.
  • Complaints about the official Discord or members of the Discord.

5. No personal ads.

  • Personal ads belong in /r/BDSMpersonals.
  • Advertising outside chat groups (Kik, Skype, Discord, etc.) is not allowed in any of our subreddits.
  • Do not give out personal contact information (Kik, Skype, Email, etc.).
  • Please don't redirect people posting personal ads to /r/BDSMpersonals. Report the posts and let the mods take care of it.

6. Posts must prompt discussion.

  • Please try to include a question or discussion prompt in your text posts.
  • Erotica, stories, anecdotes, vents, rants, gushes, brags, confessions, essays, journals, etc. don't offer much to be discussed and are better suited for /r/BDSMerotica or our monthly casual chat threads stickied at the top of the subreddit.
  • Posts with nothing or little more than links to images or articles belong in /r/BDSM, not /r/BDSMcommunity.
  • Posts that offer little to be discussed run the risk of being removed.

7. Surveys must be vetted by the mods.

  • Read our policy on surveys here.

8.Mods will use their discretion.

  • The /r/BDSM family mods will take things on a case by case basis and remove posts/comments and ban users at their discretion.

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