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1. This is an 18+ subreddit.

  • If you are found out to be under 18 your post will be removed and you will be banned from our entire subreddit family.
  • Pictures or videos of underage people in any context are not allowed.

2. Don't spam.

  • Spam posts will be removed and regular spammers will be banned.
  • Personal blog links (Tumblr, etc.) and self promotion (Etsy shops, etc.) count as spam.

3. Personal attacks and blatant abuse will not be tolerated.

  • Name calling and personal attacks.
  • Homophobia, sexism, racism, etc.
  • Purposefully inciting arguments.
  • Threats.
  • Doxxing.

4. No starting drama.

  • Linking to posts from subreddits outside our family to complain about or brigade.
  • Any discussion or accusations of TRP or any other "pill" rhetoric or philosophies.
  • Purposely inflammatory posts.

5. Do not put any personal information in ads or comments.

  • This includes contact info such as Kik, Skype, Email, Discord, etc.

  • Email addresses can be posted if encrypted by a service such as

  • Anyone leaking personal information about another user will be banned.

6. Do not advertise chat groups.

  • This includes Kik, Skype, Discord, etc.

7. Do not post your ad more than once per week.

  • Doing so will result in the removal of your post
  • Repeat offenders will be banned.

8. No advertising Findom or requesting/offering payment for services.

  • Users posting anything involving the exchange of money will be banned.

9. Use tags in your titles to make browsing posts easier.

  • Please use gender (M, F, T, A, etc.) and age tags to make it easier for users to find what they're looking for.

10. Mods will use their discretion.

  • The /r/BDSM family mods will take things on a case by case basis and remove posts/comments and ban users at their discretion.

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