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IncelTears is a place for folks to submit screenshots (NOT direct links) of the crazy stuff posted by self-described Incels (involuntary celibates) wherein they make fools of themselves in their desperate, misguided, and pathetic quest to blame women, their genes, their jawlines, their parents, their canthal tilts, other men, and ultimately all of society for their failure to get laid.
This isn't a place to shame male virgins for being virgins. This is not a place to hate on people just because they are dateless, depressed, or lonely. This is a place to highlight those hateful, idiotic, misogynistic, jaw-dropping, fallacious or just plain stupid things Incels say, and for us to laugh at, discuss, or recoil from the same (or all three).
Occasional discussion, requests for advice and support, and meta posts are welcome, but are not the focus of the subreddit. Therefore, their posting is subject to the moderators' discretion.
RULES -- IGNORE THESE AT YOUR OWN PERIL:
1) NO POSTING OF PERSONAL INFO. All personal information, including names, usernames, and identifying pictures from any source -- Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc, shown in screen captures posted here MUST be censored. Any post that breaks this rule can and will be removed at any time by moderators. And needless to say, NO DOXXING.
2) NO WITCH HUNTING. We get it, some of these guys are scumbags. Don't take matters into your own hands. If you want to rumble, don't start it here.
3) NO ENCOURAGING SUICIDE OR OTHER VIOLENCE, even if you're just joking. Saying things like "I wish they would all just kill themselves already" or "Just end yourself already" is not cool here, whether you mean it seriously or not.
4) DO NOT PM people based on their posts in this subreddit and put them on blast. We can't stop you from messaging anyone you want, but like w/ Rule 2, don't start it here. Anyone sending unprompted hostile PMs to posters or commenters here will get banned.
5) NO USERNAME TAGGING in comments or posts; i.e., don't refer to other Reddit users like "/u/xyz". Your comment or post with a tagged user can and will be removed by the mods.
6) NO MISOGYNY or BLACKPILL nonsense will be tolerated here. No incel apologism. If you make a claim that "All women think/are/do X" where "X" is some negative quality or behavior, that's misogyny. No, not all women are like that. The same types of negative generalizations about ALL men or ALL virgins (as opposed to just those who call themselves Incels) are also against the rules.
7) NO LINKING to threads and comments in hostile subreddits (MGTOW, Maleforeveralone, etc.) or to hostile comments. This INCLUDES "np" links. Use screenshots instead, please.
8) KEEP IT ON TOPIC; keep it relevant. No "woe is me" stuff. No concern trolling telling us we're meanies. No "rate me" or "lookism" posts. Incels, realincels, truecels, violent/aggressive "niceguys", and MGTOW related content is welcome. Generic "m'lady" stuff ain't. Some discussion posts are allowed at the discretion of the mods. AMA posts require mod approval.
9) DON'T BE A JERK! Don't childishly insult others with 3edgy5me crap, or use offensive insults like retard and autist. No racism, no dick-shaming, no fat-bashing, no height-shaming, no insulting people with acne, etc. If someone isn't being nasty to you, don't be nasty to them. Mods get the final call on determining who has violated this rule. Everyone should be at least mostly civil on here.
Translation of the mysterious language spoken by Incels:
-Incel: Involuntary Celibate. A romantically unsuccessful person, usually male, who seeks to blame external factors and people for his lack of romantic success. Typically expresses extreme hatred towards women, sexually successful men, and everyone who disagrees with him. Not just a sexually frustrated virgin, but someone who actively believes in, cultivates, and spreads hopelessness, hate, and misinformation about women and the nature of attraction and love.
-Inceldom: The state of being an Incel
-Incel Awareness: An Incel's realization of Inceldom and entrance into the sexless echo-chamber
-Normie: A person who isn't an incel, aka anyone who can get laid
-Chad: Pretty good looking guy who gets all the girls, although this definition changes as Incels need it to
-Cuck: Every male that is not an Incel or Chad; see: Normie
-Whore: Pretty much any woman who has agency in their sexuality (this pisses Incels off)
-Stacy: Girls who sleep with so-called Chads
-Roastie: Former "Whore" who's worn out from all dat Chad dick
-FHO: Female Humanoid Organism (women in general)
-ER: Elliot Rodgers; their (unironic) God Emporer
-Workcel: An Incel who is too busy working to get laid
-Gymcel: An Incel who attempts to compensate by working out
-EscortCel: Incels who can only get a nut by paying for sex
-Degeneracy: Anything that doesn't follow an Incels absurd world views (ie feminism, lgbt, interracial relationships, etc) as if bitter basement dwellers would know what's good for the world
-FA: Forever alone
-Suicide Fuel: Something that triggers an Incel (an event, image, rejection, etc)
-Cope: Ways Incels attempt to cope with Inceldom
-MGTOW: Men Going Their Own Way; Men taking agency over their masculinity and what defines it to them
-LDAR: Lay-Down-And-Rot; give up
-Rape: Generally defined by their means as forced PIV sex only; female on male rape is generally not recognized as rape by Incels
-Black Pill: A catastrophic prophecy or spiritless prophesying for the future that is not necessarily grounded in reality, mostly based on beliefs that women are primitive and evil. A red pill gone hopelessly bleak.