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Welcome to /r/OkCupid — a place for all things online dating, critiques, advice, and the weird little community we've built here.
- Do not post identifying information! Blur out the faces of anyone who isn't you. Censor any name that is not yours.
- You can post your own profile, but you cannot post anyone else's without moderator's permission.
- Slurs and hate speech directed toward LGBTQ, people of color, survivors of trauma/abuse, or any other undecorous content may be removed.
- /r/OkCupid is moderated for quality, which means submissions or comments that provide little to no value — whether it be education, discussion, or entertainment — may be removed at the moderator's discretion.
► FAQ & Common Posts
- Read our FAQ here
- Success Stories
- "We just detected that you're now among the most attractive people on OkCupid" email
- Becoming appointed an OkCupid moderator
- "We're experiencing technical difficulties, try again later" error
► Critiques & Advice
- Please read these rules for posting critiques before posting your own!
- Rules 1 and 2 for Dating Success
- A list of DOs and DON'Ts for profiles.
- A list of DOs and DON'Ts for messages.
All posts alternate between being posted at 1pm EST, though Fashion Friday is posted at 2:30pm EST.
Post | Day :--- | :--- Story Time Sunday | Sunday Game Day Monday | Monday Pick-a-Pic | Tuesday Rant Wednesday | Wednesday Critique-a-Section | Thursday General Discussion | Friday Fashion Friday | Friday
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