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Welcome to /r/Polyamory!

News, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues.

Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. For more general ethical sluttiness, responsible non-monogamy, and related non-traditional relationship styles, check out /r/NonMonogamy


Please read the full rules and descriptions of the rules here.

This community doesn't have many rules, but please keep in mind that we should all be respectful and play nice. That said, these are the set rules:

  1. No seeking/pickup/personal ad posts. This includes possibly removing posts asking how to find "a third" or "a unicorn."
  2. Absolutely no bigotry or intolerance.
  3. No slurs or personal attacks.
  4. No trolling, including concern trolling.
  5. Just don't be a jerk.

/r/Polyamory FAQ

You can visit the /r/Polyamory FAQ, but it's currently still a work in progress!

IRC (online chat)

#reddit-poly on FreeNode. Point your IRC client at and type /join #reddit-poly

#polyamory on Snoonet. Use the webchat link above or point your IRC client at and type /join #polyamory - this integrates with OrangeChat below.


Chat with us on OrangeChat - This works together with the #polyamory channel on Snoonet, but uses your Reddit account and username. If you're not familiar with IRC, this is the way to go!

Some Sister Subreddits:

  • /r/SoloPolyamory
  • /r/SexPositive
  • /r/NonMonogamy
  • /r/PolyFamilies
  • /r/PolyamoryR4R

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