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Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek.

Rules and Guidelines

  1. This subreddit is 18+. If you are under eighteen, do not post.
  2. No personal information, including but not limited to phone number, email addresses, or external profiles. This includes usernames for any service, of any kind.
  3. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.
  4. No sexism, racism, homophobia, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated.
  5. Spam will not be tolerated and repeated offenses will result in a ban. Posting more frequently than 1 time per 24 hours will be considered spam.
  6. All NSFW visual and textual content must be tagged/marked "NSFW."
  7. If you have an issue on the subreddit, use the report button or contact the moderators.
  8. If you do not agree with a post, ignore it and move on.
  9. No posting on behalf of another without sending proof of consent to the mods first.
  10. Accounts must be older than 48 hours in order to post or comment.
  11. Low effort posts including but not limited to posts with no body will be removed at moderator discretion.
  12. No advertising group conversations. Some of them aren't always appropriate, and sometimes they're used to farm usernames. Check out IRC or Discord if you're interested in a group conversation.

Moderators reserve the right to remove posts and/or ban users upon their discretion

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Posting on this Subreddit

The titles of submissions must be properly formatted or they will be automatically deleted. The format for post titles is:

<age> [<r4r>] <location> - <title>

"r4r" denotes your gender and preference.


21 [M4F] Arkansas - Looking for a friend

26 [F4R] Anywhere - I want a gamer buddy and somebody to chat with

30/29 [FM4FM] Australia - Married couple looking for roleplay with another married couple.

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